Hi Beautiful People,
Hope you all had a splendid weekend. This morning, I like to buttress my points in my earlier written introduction.
Women are victims of injustice in
traditional African culture both because of what the society did to them and
also because of what the society did not do to them. The society is responsible
for the position of women today because of the barriers and limitations they
have carved out for the women folk, depriving them of same opportunities as the
men are given in the society. Boys grow up knowing that they had to be strong,
hardworking and wise so that they could take good care of their wives, children
and society. Girls grow up knowing that they had to be hardworking and
submissive so that they could find good husbands who would take good care of
them. In other words, it was up to their future husbands to make their lives
fulfilled. Consequently, they are not allowed the liberty to develop their
initiative and creativity which will enable them make choices that would result
in to optimal desired self-actualization and satisfaction.
Injustices against women are on the
increase. According to John
Bwakali, chairperson of the Kenya Voluntary Development
Association, ‘in
South Africa, rape occurs every thirty-six seconds’ and ‘in the United States,
a woman is physically abused every nine seconds’ while ‘in India, five thousand
women are murdered annually through dowry murder rituals’ thus ‘sadly, these
tragic events are but the tip of the iceberg’. It is not uncommon for teenage
girls to be married off through compulsion and for some widows to be inherited
along with other 'possessions' by the next man in the family and even by a
woman in some cultures like the Igbo culture in Nigeria where the widow of the
last man in the family is married by a woman who now gives her out in marriage
for procreation purpose. The issue of wife beating is not far-fetched in our
modern day society as almost every day we hear cries of maltreated women around
the neighborhoods. Many girls in most African societies drop out of school
because preference is given to boys. This onslaught of violence seems to be
unstoppable. Yet this despicable violence is just few of the many injustices
against women.
Women in today's world, especially
in Africa, are given very little opportunity compared to their male counterpart.
It is no wonder that gender equality has become such a major international
issue. However, it becomes disturbing to note that gender inequality still
persists despite all the attention given to it. In the African context, gender
inequality is worse than it used to be decades ago. Evidently, westernization
may have brought many benefits but gender equality was not one of them. While
men in many African countries are on the forefront of political and corporate
leadership, women are relegated and left to operate at the background. At this point, I guess we all know where I am coming from and my aim for this blog.... Have a wonderful day people.
Note: If you have a story to share or you just want to express yourself and tell your story or report an incident in your area, you can email me on maryannaboshi@gmail.com.
QUOTE OF THE DAY: "To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don't need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself" -Thich Nhat Hanh
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