SHE Blogs Out (MimiDairies): KIM'S WANNA BE.......FUNNY HOW SOME WOMEN THINK. S...

SHE Blogs Out (MimiDairies): KIM'S WANNA BE.......FUNNY HOW SOME WOMEN THINK. S...: This 24year old is really keeping up with [Ke eping Up With the Kardashians ] just that she runs into debt keeping up.London resident Cl...

KIM'S WANNA BE.......FUNNY HOW SOME WOMEN THINK. SEE pictures.

This 24year old is really keeping up with [Keeping Up With the Kardashians] just that she runs into debt keeping up.London resident Claire Leeson has spent almost £20,000 (more than $30,000 for you Yanks) in plastic surgery and cosmetic enhancements in an effort to look more like her idol, Kim K.

 Leeson told This Morning that part of the reason she wanted to resemble Kim so badly was because she was bullied so much in school.

"I was told every day that I was the ‘ugliest thing alive' and I should ‘kill myself. When I left school friends would tell me that I had a resemblance to Kim," Claire said. So, I watched [Keeping Up With the Kardashians] and realized I had the same amount of siblings and that we have the same kind of arguments and things going on. I thought she was so beautiful and I really wanted to be like her."

Claire has had a boob job, teeth whitening, hair extensions and dropped thousands on spray tans, clothing, make-up as well as a special pad for her butt to give her derriere the Kim lift. However, Claire says the pad is a temporary fix and she hopes to soon have fat removed from other parts of her body and implanted into her butt.

Claire revealed that she's "up to my eyeballs" in debt because she used credit cards to pay for the procedures, and she even admitted that her family is worried about her Kim obsession.

"When I get my Kimmy on I feel like I'm unstoppable and untouchable and I feel like no one can stop me and I can make something of myself," she said. "I feel strong. I feel that I have built enough confidence to love myself a little bit more."

MALALA APPEALS

 Pakistani rights activist Malala Yousafzai, who survived being shot in the head by the Taliban for campaigning for girls' education, pledged while on a trip to Nigeria to help free a group of schoolgirls abducted by Islamist militants.

Malala, thoughtful and self-possessed, explained that she had made the journey to Nigeria from Birmingham in England, where she lives at present, because she regarded the kidnapped girls as her sisters.

"I am going to stand up for them," she said.

Monday has been designated by the United Nations as Malala Day. She has just turned 17, and she decided that she must mark it by coming to Nigeria and appealing for the release of the kidnapped girls and the right of all children here to an education.

Food For Thought

SINGLE AND HOT

Are you 23,25 or 28? Are you waiting for your knight in shining armor, your tall dark and handsome prince, your money making machine, with the latest Mercedes and Bugatti. Are you waiting for that man who will completely sweep you off your feet or have you been told you cannot be financially independent in life that you seek a man who u will weigh down with your financial responsibilities. Or you have been told you are too beautiful and you need a money tap in form of a man to help keep you beautiful?
 Just thought I should provide this factual medical information to you before its too late especially if you intend to be married with kids someday of which at least 80% of African women desire to.


         "Female fertility declines much earlier than thought, scientists says.Women are 10 per cent
          less  fertile at 27, according to a study.Experts have said up to now that female fertility
          begins    to drop in the mid-30s. But researchers found a woman's biological clock may
          start ticking years earlier.They say 19 to 26-year-olds have a 50 per cent chance
          of  conceiving two days before ovulation - a  woman's most fertile time.That drops to
         40 per cent for those aged 27 to 34. After 35, the women studied had only a 30 per cent
         chance of falling pregnant in any given month" 

Wake up babes, don't be carried away by the beauty comments, let a man in, fall in love and settle down. I am not saying you shouldn't have standards, but let your standards be godly and realistic not materialistic.
Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you should get desperate, I am only saying you should do the right thing at the right time and for the right reasons.

QUOTE OF THE DAY: "You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back" - Barbara De Angelis, American researcher.

RELATIONSHIP & LOW SELF ESTEEM

 Hey people, its been awhile I know, but you know how it is - work, family, business, I can go on and on. The good thing is that no matter how long I am away, I will always come come back with some valuable food for thought.

As I was going through an excerpt from Suzanne Lachmann's book titled "Me Before We", I came across  something about how low self esteem can affect a relationship from the female angle.Enjoy and learn.

1. Bring the Bling: You feel wretched and fantasize that a knight in shining armor will take you out of your circumstances and make everything better.Why don't you work to make yourself better and bail yourself out of your wretchedness instead of waiting for a man to "save you".
2.Testing: How could he really love me? He doesn’t really love me, does he? Below the surface these insecurities guide your emotions and actions. You can’t believe you could be truly loved and so you test your partner every chance you get so that he can demonstrate his value (which you don’t believe or trust anyway).
3. Guarded: You may be hesitant and afraid of allowing yourself to love so that you either abandon your partner before you can be abandoned or you won't allow yourself to get fully into a relationship in the first place. Without trusting that maybe you won’t be betrayed, you are deeply afraid of exposing yourself to the possibility of being hurt.
4. Resilient: Despite circumstances that could contribute to low self-esteem, some women are just built to be resilient. They’re born that way or work really hard to acquire the ability – despite negative experiences – to engage in a positive, substantive relationship as they mature. Resilience enables women to be more measured in their approach to men, rather than hysterical about it.
5. Boy Crazy: With low self-esteem, it can seem as if nothing comes easily or naturally to you. Instead, because you don’t see yourself as naturally lovable, you feel like you have to fight and claw and strive for a mate.
6. Seeking Financial Safety: Are you willing to surrender your hopes for an authentic connection with a partner to guarantee wealth and "financial safety"? This category manifests as the need to trap a mate with looks or sex or your other physical resources while hiding what you see as a shameful inner part of yourself.
7. Seeking Insecurity: Because you are familiar with situations that create low self-esteem – being left, being cheated on, etc. – you gravitate toward relationships in which you’re able to feel this familiar insecurity. When it’s not there, you may even create it.
8. Settlers: You’re willing to commit yourself to the person who expresses interest in you. You become much less discriminating about who you choose. You may even be willing to put up with behavior that doesn't satisfy you, because you feel lucky to have anyone at all, even though you are aware you are not happy.
9. Scared of Intimacy: You may get really scared as the relationship progresses because authentic connection feels so foreign and fake. Instead of allowing this connection, you may back away and become more distant emotionally and shut down sexually.
10. Disbelief: It can be hard to imagine and even harder to believe that you can create and sustain authentic connections. As a means of protecting yourself, you assume dishonesty even from an honest partner, which in turn sours the relationship as it goes on.

QUOTE FOR THE DAY: “How wrong is it for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself?” ― Anaïs Nin

I CALL THIS CONFIDENCE AND SELF ESTEEM

Sick and tired of the Hollywood's craze for the perfect shape, perfect body and perfect look, this pretty lady strips to bikini and walks confidently in the middle of Hollywood Boulevard. You may call this "awkward"  and it may cause you visual constipation, but I call it "bold and beautiful" and it makes me ask why we (ladies) kill ourselves trying to get the so called "perfect shape" and why we all long to fit into a size 8 outfit forgetting to focus on the important things like creating and nurturing self esteem and confidence in being who we are.

Please give me a break from this whole myopic rant of the perfect body and start loving yourself the way you are. Believe me, no one would appreciate  you more than you can. The moment you start loving yourself, something changes about you and you begin to carry an aura of confidence. This self esteem I tell you is more attractive to people than you trying to squeeze into a size 8 dress.
Keep fit, stay healthy physically and emotionally, work on your self esteem and stop living a fake life.
I'm no size 8, but I am beautiful and I love me the way I am. You too should start loving yourself. Stop being a doormat.

QUOTE FOR THE DAY: "If you don’t like being a doormat then get off the floor." – Al Anon.